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The big three started swimming lessons yesterday. They have them four days this week, and four days next week. Last year, we spent eight days at the pool, for approximately four hours each day because I scheduled them separate and spread apart and quickly learned that it wasn’t going to be very much fun…for any of us.
This year, Henry and Ivy are in the same class, and Essie’s overlaps their’s, so we’re there for an hour total.
The thing is, if you’re not in a lesson, you’re not allowed to be next to or in the pool. And if you’re a parent, they ask you not to leave the gated pool premises. Which I get…it’s all about safety.
His grandpa is going to keep Erv with him (you know…the TWO year old that never stops moving), but not until the third lesson this week (tomorrow). My dad is really great about babysitting the kids when I need him, but he was with my mom and four of my nieces and nephews on a trip until tonight.
So. Do you see why I was dreading the first two swimming lessons? Erv and I would be at a hot table, snacking on marshmallows and Chex while his sisters and brother are allowed to go in the big, fun, refreshing pool and “play” for an hour while he’s strapped into an umbrella stroller and forced to watch. (I think this picture says it all)
It could have gone two ways. He could have been content to eat his snack and drink a juice box while he played games on the tablet. The hour could have gone quickly, and we’d pack our things up and go home, eat lunch, and put him down for a nap.
Or, he could have an epic meltdown in the middle of the cement, umbrella-d prison, crying as he tried to wrangle his tummy, then his legs, then his feet out of the stroller straps. I’d check my phone every 3 minutes and 42 seconds until FINALLY, the hour would be over and I would yell at the big three to get their behinds dressed in dry clothes so we could just. get. out. of. there.
Either way, there was no guarantee that it would happen two days in a row.
So, what happened? Well. I can safely say that I’m looking forward to dropping him off at grandpa’s house before we head to the pool tomorrow.
The tablet that I was sure would keep him occupied? A glorified mirror out in the sun.
So today, I brought the DS, which he’s more than happy to play at home. At the pool, though? He’ll just hang on to it thankyouverymuch.
The snacks? He asked for pretzels, and then sucked the salt off and threw them on the ground (and then asked for them again today).
It really wasn’t so bad until the last 15 minutes or so. Then he started playing his favorite game called “hold my hand,” in which he holds my hand and then tries to use my arm to pull himself out of the stroller.
It’s sweet, until it’s not.
So yeah. It wasn’t terrible. But two hours out of eight is plenty, thankyouverymuch.
(And no. He wasn’t allowed out of the stroller. At all.)
Are there things you dread doing, just because of your child’s age/stage?
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As always, you take lovely pictures.
Thank you. π
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Aw, Erv.
There is no way I can keep either of my monkeys strapped anywhere for an hour. Not even 30 minutes. Even armed with the best snacks and entertainment. Hats off to you, lady!
And yay for grandpa babysitters!
I didn't think so, either, but I had to try and thankfully, it worked….mostly.
Oh, man, that's rough! Hooray for Grandpa!
Grandpa is seriously my hero!
Dude I SO feel this. Charlie does Ok in a stroller…if we are moving. So bringing him to watch Eddie do gymnastics for an hour confined to the stroller so he wouldn't run out to try to do gymnastics too? Ugg.
And you really can't blame them, but it is SO hard.
This I can SO relate to! MY daughter doesn't sit still EVER so I love that you posted this. It makes me feel human.
Thank you for this, seriously. I was feeling like I was a bad mom for not just letting him run around and chasing after him, but it is SO. EXHAUSTING.
I have been there, trying to occupy my youngest while my oldest has activities. So hard when you can neither walk around and explore wit the stroller, nor let them out to play on their own. So hard. Happy for both of you that it was for a limited time only! π
I was so happy to leave him with grandpa on Wednesday! It's hard for both of us to have to sit there and watch (well, okay, I like to watch, but you know what I mean). Being the little one is tough!
Oh, I dread anything where Zuzu has to sit still for more than a few minutes. Especially if it's in a "quiet place." 21 months is hard. (And I feel like such a bad parent because Nora was a) way more reserved and b) I had more time/energy to make sure she was well-behaved.
Right? The girls weren't constantly running or jumping or climbing, but I take Erv to the park with everybody else, and he runs off for the picnic tables or down the sidewalk. It wouldn't be so bad if he would just listen when I tell him to stop. SIGH.
Hooray for grandpa! Next time will be better. And I was cracking up that he eats the sale off the snacks. π
I know! I'd never seen him do that before, but of course, he's thrown food before, plenty. π
Poor guy and poor mama. That couldn't have been easy. I used to dread taking my kids out anywhere when the littlest was still nursing randomly and the toddler was into everything. Now that they're a bit older everything seems easier. Until someone pukes in the car, that is.
And what is it with kids loving salt? My two want soy sauce on pretty much everything. They'd defintely lick the salt off pretzels if I'd let them have them!
It does get easier to go places as they get older. This age is just hard, especially since he will not stay with me….he just runs off! I'm looking forward to the end of that particular phase. :/
Oh man Greta, rough π It makes you really feel for parents who can't count on grandparents on a regular basis doesn't it? I swear I would never have done a thing.
I wouldn't either. Sometimes I feel like we stay home too much, but then sometimes, I think taking them places is TOO MUCH. I know it gets easier as they get older….and we won't have to leave Erv home all the time. π
I think my daughter would lose her mind if she had to sit still for a hour. She is non stop all the time, even when she is sleeping she is wiggling around.
That's how he is, too, and why I was dreading it so much. I think that if it had been any longer, he surely would've lost his mind!
Poor Erv. That had to suck. I'm pretty sure I could not have sat in a stroller like that either.
I know, it sucked for him. It would've sucked for everybody, though, if I had to chase him away from the water for an hour, nonstop…..mama doesn't do heat and non-listening children well.
I know just what you mean. For real. At least they're cute. I've been dreading the grocery store lately with Brinky. He was pretty good for a while, but he's currently in a shrieking in anger throughout the store phase, which is NOT FUN. Pretty much anywhere he's not going to be allowed to roam free is a problem π
Oh, I can so relate. Keeping my almost 3-yr old quiet and happy during 8-yr old sister's activities is a tough one. I generally opt for babysitters, too, but like you, I sometimes find myself in a pinch & have to bring him along. So unpleasant for everyone involved π
AT LEAST THEY'RE CUTE. Amen. Erv does pretty well in the store, AFTER I shove his legs in the cart seat while he yells at me not to. Until we get to the check-out line, where he wants to push ALL the buttons on the credit card machine.
You ARE really blessed to have your Dad to help you out, Greta! And also, what Jennifer said, that's just so hard for him! And YOU!
Too bad they don't have a kiddie pool or another place you two can swim together…
I really, really am blessed, and I'm thankful for him every day! There is a kiddie pool, and some parents having been hanging around it after their "baby and me" classes have finished. But last year, my kids got yelled at for standing by the fence on the edge of the pool and watching kids swim, so I didn't want to risk it. Because trying and then having to put him BACK in the stroller after getting in the water? NO THANK YOU!
You do what you gotta do! I understand the dread, though. Glad you got that over with!
Me too, Laura. Me too!
Yay for Grandpa! And for you! I can't keep mine contained for that long, even the 1 year old is getting difficult to leave in the stroller. I am so jealous you have grandparents to help out!
I really am so thankful to have my dad to help me. He's a lifesaver!
Oh you be there are places I dread going. Pretty much every where. People say it gets better as they get older. HAH! Unless they are squabbling siblings. I've got that going on every single day.
My older kids generally don't squabble while we're out, because they're just happy to be OUT, but they get so wild and loud sometimes!
I saw the first pic on Instagram and my first thought was that Ervin looked thrilled! π Thankfully, those 2 hours are O.V.E.R.
Haha! I know…but it was so bright and sunny that I couldn't see all of their expressions clearly when I posted it…so it made me laugh to see it when I put it in this post! So perfect. LOL
And YES. Thank GOODNESS.
Oh my gosh. I can just imagine the nightmare that could be.
I know…it could have been SO much worse. Thank goodness it's over.
Yes, there are things/places I dread with both my kids. I actually work my life around avoiding them. π
Right?! The things we do to manipulate our schedules JUST to avoid taking them certain places. SIGH. π
Poor Erv! Poor you! It's so hard to be the baby of the family. Wade has been so exhausted since the big kids got out of school. He's whining more than usual and throwing a few more fits than normal. The big kids are getting annoyed and I just remind them that he's only 3 and trying so hard to keep up.
And I agree about the holding hands in the heat, sweet until it's not. Ugh! Wade is going through a "carry me" phase and it's soooo hot.
Exactly. It is so tough being the baby, at least until they grow up some and can keep up without being the "little bother."
Essie wants me to carry her a lot too, when she's "tired of walking." I'm always all, how do you think *I* feel, kid?!