The big day was drawing near. It had been six long days since her big brother and sister started school, and the preschool open house had finally arrived.
The day before, while filling out paperwork for her enrollment (the preschool is in the same school building as the elementary classes, is for four-year olds, and isn’t required), I realized that hers was the only birth certificate AND social security card that I didn’t have in the file box.
We haven’t traveled out of the country since the kids had been born, and this would be the first time that Essie was enrolled in a class, so I’m pretty sure that the only time I would’ve taken them out were for her tongue surgery or her children’s hospital tests and procedures. Both of which were at least a year and a half ago.
Regardless, I didn’t have them, and needed them so the school could make copies to keep on file. I began a cleaning/organizing/shredding spree that lasted approximately 18 hours. I never found either of them (and am sure they’re gallivanting together, somewhere). Thankfully, my husband called to say that he’d be leaving week early, and I sweet-talked him into stopping at the vital statistics office. (it didn’t take much convincing, actually…he’s a good man)
So, with new birth certificate copy in hand (and plans to get to the SS office this week), we dropped off the other three with grandpa and loaded up a VERY excited little four-year old and headed to the school.
When we got there, just like with the first two preschool experiences, the classroom was full of kids and parents. FULL. It was crowded and warm and completely overwhelming to my girl, who is full of personality at home but clams up around kids (and grown ups) she doesn’t know.
Most of the parents were ushered to another room for information, questions, and for volunteer sign-ups. My husband (and a few others) hung back with our crying girl for a while, until she calmed down for the teacher. He went back to her, though, when the teacher came to talk to the parents, and found that she had found a little friend with whom to stand and play silently. Isn’t that what we all need?
The preschool classes don’t start until (early) next Monday morning, but as soon as we left, she was excited again. Of course.
The first day, if the fact that open house went exactly the same for her big sister is any indication, the first morning will be rough. I’ll probably have to hang around for a little while after drop-off, but I think, after she gets used to it and actually starts talking to the other kids, she’ll have a lot of fun. *fingers crossed*
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Oh Greta her little tears and clamming up break my heart. My girls are exactly like that. They are going to school with me this semester and I know they are going to cry. I'm such a sucker.
I hope it gets easier fast.
BTW she certainly must be the cutest little girl in that class!
Sigh. Me too. But, thank goodness it's temporary, right?! And thank you!
I bet you're right, she will love it once she gets to know some of the other kiddos and her teachers. I love that photo of the two of you together – such great smiles!
Thanks, Elaine! Ivy was always fine when she got herself glued to the teacher. π Essie might be the same way, although I never would've believed it.
Oh she looks so darn cute! It's going to be great. Thanks for hosting.
Thanks, Pam! I think so, too. π Thanks for linking up!
Her smile at the end says it all. How wonderful that the evening ended positively, and with a new friend. The first of many, I am sure. π
π Thanks, Kim. It's always a rough transition, but yeah….at least she's still excited!
I understand this post. My toddler is very vocal and interactive with everyone, except louder kids or bigger kids.
At her first daycare, almost a year ago, she did not like it the first 4 months. She just didn't want to go. She was fine after being dropped off, but not on her way there. She was anxious.
Last Monday she started daycare for only this 2 weeks while her primary daycare is on vacation. She was excited at first to try a new one, but it's a bigger facility compared to her last one. Also, the kids are older and …unfamiliar to her. She is not enjoying her mornings knowing she is getting ready to go there.
This mom's heart hurts.
Aw, that's so sad! It's such a big adjustment. I hope she starts enjoying it!
She's the cutest! Can you believe it, THREE in school? π
I can't believe it! And um…not looking forward to getting three kids ready and out of the house by 7:25.
She's gorgeous. She'll fit right in. (Not just because she's gorgeous). π
Ha! I'm just praying she doesn't talk about her "penis" the first week…
I'm pretty sure my son will be the same – shy at first but loving it after not too long. Here's hoping!
I think that'll be the case. I mean, who wouldn't love preschool?! It's all playing and snacks with your friends!
Awww!
I had to have all three kids' birth certificates for something a couple months ago and for some reason could not find Jenny's – but I had THREE certified copies of Reagan's. Made no sense at all because I know I have gotten copies of Jenny's at least twice before. How do things like that happen?
She's so cute and tiny and looks somewhat ready for preschool – at least in that last happy picture with you π Hope it goes well next week! And then Erv gets his mama all to himself for awhile!
Just reading this made me get all anxious for my little girl. I think, she'll be more than okay but this week is a little rough on this mama – my last one leaving the nest. I'm glad that her preschool class is at the same school as her brother and sister and if anything she'll know they are close by. Lots of luck to Essie. Hope she'll find a new friend quickly and will enjoy going to school!!!
Oh what a sweetie. They do just love school at this age. Even if it's hard at first.
Awwww she's so adorable. I'm sure once she gets used to it she will be fine
She is so precious. Is it bad that I wish my girls didn't run so readily away from me when school starts?
My daughter goes next year and I think that's how it will be for her, too.
Oh too cute. I hope the tears were only for that night?
I love the photo of Essie and her Dad.
She's so pretty like her mama. And what a sweet hubby you have to help you with that errand. I hope she adjusts quickly and makes some new friends!
I love having a friend to stand with and play silently, too. Great pictures!
Haha, ME. TOO. Thanks, Andrea!
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