When I was little, my brothers and parents called me “the gypsy,” because I would wear big, long skirts that twirled and flowed and became a giant circle around me when I sat on the floor for kindergarten square time. My mom also indulged all of my hairstyle whims, cutting and perming my hair when I asked her to.
Ivy started first grade a couple of weeks ago, and Essie started preschool yesterday. I let her choose her outfit (out of several), and much to my delight, she chose my favorite, one that I had bought for her.
When it came time to put her socks and shoes on, she insisted on wearing her (way too big) socks and light-up pink shoes, both of which came from her shopping trip with grandma the weekend before.
I asked her, a couple of times….”are you sure you want those socks? They’re pretty long on you.” I knew the shoes were a lost cause, as they were brand new, and you know….lit up. But the socks.
As a first-time mom, my first-born wore what I gave him, with matching shoes and socks anytime we left the house (and probably, anytime we didn’t leave the house). He still wears what I give him and rarely argues, though I did let him pick out his school clothes when we went shopping for them. The girls have their own opinions, though.
In the end, I let her wear them. They weren’t hurting me. They weren’t taking (much) away from the adorable outfit she was wearing. She kind of matched her sister, who was wearing her own tall socks and fancy sneakers. I did manage to get her to fold them down, so the bright pink heels weren’t halfway to her knees.
She didn’t cry when I dropped her off, and an older sibling and mom of one of her classmates even said that her outfit was “really cool!”
When I picked her up and was getting her buckled into her seat in the van, as she said goodbye to her class’ para out the window, she said “I had a wonderful time, didn’t I.”
And that’s all that matter, isn’t it.
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It's funny – my oldest wore what I put I picked out for him up until recently when e started picking out his own clothes. My youngest shows signs of wanting to have more of an opinion on his style. 🙂
I am so in the same boat and I'm really glad that my kids have to wear uniforms – one less battle I have to deal with. My boy would be ok but the girls would add to my growing bulk of grey hair!!! Her outfit is super cute even more so because of her adorable smile!!!
I've so been there. Their choice of socks and shoes can totally ruin the oh-so-lovely outfits we visualize for the, can't they?! Kudos to you for letting it slide.
I think she has VERY good taste. 🙂
Soo not worth your energy to battle that one out. Great pictures Greta!
Sometimes it frustrates me with Katie too, on some of the clothing/shoe choices she makes but I just let it go because I know the independence is a good thing and if she is happy then so am I! And Essie is adorable, shoes and ALL!
Awesome!
love the outfit. We have to pick our battles over here, too. Some days I just stare in wonder at the outfits she chooses.
D'aww.
My kids are the same way, and I've chosen my battles (or lack thereof) the exact same way as well.
Love that outfit! A good first impression is always important. 😉
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Such a cute outfit! I remember going through some of these types of issues with my girls and pretty quickly deciding that they could wear what they wanted (within reason) and even if it didn't match and looked a little crazy, it wasn't hurting anyone and they were happy!
Look how proud she is in that one with the bent knee! So cute. Those shoes are fierce! 😉
I believe the key to parenting and marriages and dealing with bosses, and well, just about everything else in life is picking your battles. Glad you didn't fight her on this one. She's adorable, no matter what she wears.
That is an absolutely adorable outfit (socks and all). But I get it – it drives me crazy when Connor chooses clothes that don't match or wears weird socks.
Yep, that's all that matters! I think all of your kids look adorable. My son still lets me pick out his clothes, but I indulge him with the bright red Cars Crocs that I can't stand. 🙂