I can’t begin to imagine what was going through those runners’ and spectators’ minds yesterday as the explosions went off at the finish line of the Boston Marathon. But even though I will probably never run a marathon, I do know that running has become a love of mine. To honor those people (in my own little insignificant way), I wanted to share some things that running has taught me in the last year.
1. You don’t have to be perfect. I never thought I could run, and when I started, my pace was barely above a fast walk. But I’ve kept at it, and I’m improving, slowly but surely. I’ll never be the fastest, but I can always get better.
2. You can do something you love to make a change in the world. Every 5K I’ve taken part in has donated money to a charity. So, while I always joke that I’m doing it for the shirt, I also know that I’m doing a little bit of good, too.
3. You don’t have to take yourself too seriously. No matter your age, it’s okay to wear a tutu to run a 5K on the public streets of a local town, or to pause for extra color to be sprayed on your back, or to participate in a glorified wet t-shirt foam course. Because you know what? You’re not alone….there will be hundreds of others doing the same thing at the same time and laughing their way through it, too.
4. It’s okay to lose yourself for a while. Whether you’re a mom that takes care of little ones all day, or a college student, or a kid learning to take part in a team, or a 70 year old great-grandparent, that time to zone out, listen to music or just think is priceless. And no, no one will judge if your playlist is mostly Top 40 songs.
5. You’re never too old to try something new. I was never an athlete in school, but I’m in better shape now that I’ve ever been, I think. For 31 years, I was pretty sure I couldn’t run. But I tried it, and found out that I could. Like my seven year old says “Mama, you can do it. All you have to do is try.”
6. There will always be strangers cheering you on. It doesn’t matter who you brought to a race with you, or who people are there to see….people will cheer for everyone that is out there, doing their best. Walking, sprinting, and everything in between.
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The tutu is cool, but the tiara is AWESOME! Way to go with the running! It feels so great to work your body that way.
Haha, thanks! They gave out the tiaras, and my mom found an extra one during the race, so the girls (and Ervin) now each have one to wear. It does feel great, and what an amazing sense of accomplishment.
How wonderful that you’ve got so much out of running, and you’re giving back through it too.
The tutu is awesome!
Heehee, thanks! It was part of a Halloween costume that I had to actually cut a lot of length off of. I'll need to get a better one if there's another race deserving of a tutu. 🙂
Great post! The marathon was all about charities and giving back. Every year I support numerous runners and ever since we moved to MA watched the marathon run thru my town. I'm in shock and so sad by this tragedy. My daughter has been going since she was 6 months old. This was her first year she got into it and cheered on the runners. The past day all she keeps saying is how much fun she had at the marathon. That little innocent moment has kept me going.
I'm glad you are doing so well with your runs! Is nice to hear your updates and agin thank you for posting this!
That is so sweet, and so amazing that you have that innocence to hold on to. I knew you were close, but I didn't realize you were THERE. Wow. And thank you for your comment, that means so much, Kelly! (By the way, I love how your site is coming along!!)
I love how you rock a tutu and a tiara in broad daylight with no liquor. 🙂
It was early morning and the run was really tough…I think it was the delirium from those two things that allowed the diva-ness to emerge. 😉
Oh running, it's so wonderful for so many reasons. Truly. And you highlighted some of the best. And you're SO cute! 😀
Heehee, thanks Elaine! I tried. And boy, was I worn out after that one. I asked my mom what a good princess pose would be. 😉
I have never been a runner, but you make it sound and look like a lot of fun. I also love the thought of time with my music – it is one of my favourite reasons to go walking. 🙂
Oh, I love walking, too. Now I find that I get impatient when I walk, but it's the same concept, for sure. It's thinking time, or grooving time, no matter how fast you go!
My heart is broken for Boston. Thanks for sharing the lessons running has taught you. Love the crown!
Thank you so much. The crown was a nice touch, no?
You look awesome! And this is a perfect tribute to Boston. Because marathon running begins with the willingness to "try something new" or any running for that matter. And those people in the streets who cheer us on at races, I'd like to think we can cheer each other on off the course as well. I think that would be a great way to honor the tragedy.
Yes, I think so too. Thank you, Ilene!
Every time I see your wonderful running pictures, you make me feel like I should take up running. For real. (I think this is probably at least the 10th time I've said that, but I mean it. Maybe I actually need to do it!)
Ha! I think you should try it at least, Katie. You just never know!
This is such a great post and a wonderful tribute. While I'm not a runner and don't know that I ever will be, I might be more easily persuaded to try if I could do it in a tutu and tiara. 🙂
Cheryl, the tutu and tiara definitely helped that morning! Thank you. 🙂
Love the tutu look on you. I keep thinking one day I'll try to run. I mostly do a walk/run type thing but have been slacking lately — need to get back in the swing of things!!! 🙂
I definitely started out with a run/walk and worked my way up to running (and a little walking sometimes). The tutu makes it a little more fun, especially with the dang hills we had!
Good lessons. I love that you're loving it. (And I love the tutu!)
you look fantastic! So proud of you.
xoxox
Girl, this is very inspiring and true. We mamas need to take care of ourselves and try things….we all get too lost in being moms sometimes.
I love the updates you post to Facebook about how far you've ran this year. I find them inspiring every single time. Keep it up!
I just want to meet you for realz. The pink tutu and tiara to run in? I mean…I love you for that.
You look so cute in your little black tutu! 🙂 These are all great points about running. I have a love-hate relationship with it myself. I love the way it makes me feel (albeit sometimes not until after I'm done) and look (it's the quickest way for me to slim down), but it doesn't always love me. And so I hate what it does to my already weak and creaky knees and the way it makes my pregnancy-induced sciatica flair up in my left hip (um, hi… I haven't been pregnant in over three years). I keep meaning to do the C25K program to ease back into it, but so far I've been lazy. I would like to run a 5K, though.
That's so true. What always gets me at races is all the people cheering. It's such an incredible energy and the feeling you get running by is incredible. Good for you for running. You are an inspiration!
As a runner, I sure love every single word here. xoxo
Love it, Greta. I'm so proud of you and how hard you've pushed yourself. I think there's this thing we hit in our 30s where we want to get into the best shape we can. I'm not as thin as I was a few years ago (and I was never thin really), but I'm probably in much better shape thanks to running. Keep it up. You are awesome.
I've been threatening to take up jogging – and NOT buy a jogging stroller. Reason #4. Not sure that I could rock a tutu with such aplombe though – you go girl 🙂
You rock. I love hearing about people who are doing things they thought they couldn't do when they were younger. It goes to show how much a little motivation can go a long way. …smiles…
The only thing I can say is HOW did you not get picked for mammavation? You are the most inspiring mom I know. I love your fight and fun attitude!
Awesome!