Welcome to #iPPP! Sarah at The Sunday Spill and I want to see your funny, your yummy, your heartfelt, your favorite phone photos of the week. All you need is a blog post containing at least one photo from any phone camera. Link up below!
You all know I have four kids. I stay at home, and I’m lucky if I have a reason to put on makeup once a week. Dates are rare these days….like, every three (or six) months at the most (and we have family living practically next door). But when it does happen, I try my hardest to make the most of it, so I can hang on to the memories until the next one rolls around (you know, in June).
- Do not, under any circumstances, tell the world how excited you are to be getting out UNTIL YOU ARE GONE. Something will inevitably happen to ruin your plans, and you will be incredibly disappointed while everyone is waiting to live vicariously through your pictures.
- Dress up for yourself, especially if you don’t get out much. OR, dress for the weather, because your husband won’t notice that you have rain boots on until you tweet about it.
- Think hard about where you’re going to eat. If fancy’s not your thing, don’t waste your once-in-a-blue-moon date on fancy. Go to a place where you can get amazing french fries and sangria. Or pizza and beer if that’s what you want. Or the most perfectly cooked steak and shrimp with a glass of the splurgiest wine. You don’t get nights out much, so do exactly what YOU want to do.
- You know you’re not “supposed” to talk about your kids when you’ve finally gotten the chance to leave them for a while. And you know how hard it is to not talk about them. In order to just get it out of the way, I love to get a text from the babysitter/grandparent with a picture of what the kids are doing. You know, rip the band-aid off and move on with the night.
- When we finally get a chance to see a movie, there’s never much to choose from. Pick the least of the evils and just go, if you love the movie theater like I do. Even if the movie turns out to be terrible, you just spent two hours alone with your spouse and mindless entertainment. I call that a win.
- Make absolutely sure that you take a picture of the two of you together, so on Thursday, when the kids are fighting and you’re making turkey roll ups for the third lunch in a row, you can prove to yourself that date night actually did happen.
- If at all possible, find someplace for your kids to spend the night, other than your home. That way, you can stay out with your husband way later than you normally would and be reminded of just how old you are.
- If “date night” can’t happen, “date afternoon” can be just as good. Fewer crowds at the restaurants and movie theaters, sunshine for things like mini golfing, and the option to add super romantic extras like stopping at the grocery store for four gallons of milk and a gigantic pack of toilet paper.
How do you do date night?
<div align="center"><a href="http://www.gfunkified.com" title="GFunkified"><img src="http://mamamash.files.wordpress.com/2012/06/ippp-polaroid-125-x-125.jpg" alt="GFunkified" style="border:none;" /></a></div>
I'm with you – date night once or twice a year kind of thing. It looks like you had a great time, though! Way to make the most of the little time you get!
We did have fun. It wasn\’t the fancy overnight weekend we were looking forward to, but it was a night out without the kids!
Glad you had a such a good time! Date nights don't happen often around here, either. When we do, we usually opt for dinner out – usually something like sushi or just a restaurant without paper placemats and crayons at the table. Then we usually catch a movie. That sounds great to me right now! 🙂
Yes, that sounds amazing, and a lot like our rare date nights!
Good, good advice. Especially the part about kids staying overnight somewhere else. So that date night can go on. And on. 🙂
Right?! 🙂
I know it was delayed a bit but so glad you two still got to hang out, just the TWO of you! Rain boots and all. And I mean how else would you have been able to write this blog post?!? (I kid… kinda).
Right?! A girl's gotta have something to write about. And that's the whole reason I wore the rain boots. Bahaha!
Haha! We totally sneak in the romantic Costco trip when we do date afternoon too. Since our oldest is now a teenager, we are finally getting a little more time together. You'll get there! But i still haven't seen a current movie in a theater in years.
Someday, we'll get there! Someday. 🙂
I'm glad you managed your date night – and you looked great 🙂 Erv kills me with his cuteness. We never date night. Like for real, never. But it's okay because my husband would hate it so much that it wouldn't be a good time. I'm fine with forcing a grown up movie at home while the older two stay in their room and the little one's asleep every once in a while – totally satisfies me!
Aw, that makes me sad! Why would he hate it so much? At least you've found something that works for you guys! And thanks! He kills me with the cute, too. 🙂
A friend and I have recently started a babysitting swap. We put our own kids to bed and then the other one comes over to stay with them. It means that the hubs and I get to get out for date night about every 6 weeks which is huge since it used to be every 6 months! It's also nice b/c after a long day of watching your own kids you don't have to actually watch someone else's (since they're in bed)- you just get to sit on their couch and relax!
That sounds AMAZING. Do your kids sleep over, too, or do you leave them at home with your husband?
Date nights these days look very different… most of the time we head out to our fave sushi restaurant, enjoy the food, the sake and the uninterrupted dinner and then head back home by 8 or 9 o'clock. I'm hoping we'll manage some time away from home again for a long weekend, like we did last year. That was such a treat!
Oh, I bet it was!! We've planned a couple of those and it hasn't happened. But your dates sound fabulous, too!
I love this! Even if the movie does suck, you get to sit and watch the whole thing without kids interrupting you or having to turn it off! It's been a long time since we had a date night, and looks like there isn't another one in site for a long time. Thanks for showing off the pictures 🙂
EXACTLY. It's okay when the movie sucks. At least it gives you something to talk about after. 🙂 I hope you get a night out soon!
AHAHAHA whew, YES to all of these!!! we've had lots of dates ruined by high expectations. And bad movies. And inappropriate eating places. But there is always a picture…oh yes….ALWAYS.
ALWAYS a picture. I'm glad you can relate!!
Those are some SEXAY rainboots. 😀
I know, right? They're my special occasion boots.
Not that I'm glad my kids are older (snicker) but one of the best parts? Date nights came back! WoopWoop! WE gave up when they were little… too expensive and I'm too cheap. Now we can leave them alone for a few hours and use that $50 babysitter money on at least half a decent dinner!
Woohoo! That sounds fantastic. At least there's ONE good thing about our kids growing up.
I always want to take a pic of the two of us out to dinner and the hubs is all like, "how many pictures of us eating do you need" lol. I just want proof that we went out. So glad you had a date night.
Ha! Just tell him you need one each time you go out. JUST ONE! 😀
[…] kids had stayed with my parents so hubs and I could have a date night, and my little brother (who quickly became Erv’s best friend) was […]