Diane is a mom of three ADORABLE kids from Boston, raising her “princess, superhero, and little terror” and writing about it at Dollops of Diane. She is just the sweetest (I would’ve sworn she was southern if I didn’t know better). Check out her blog and you’ll see that we have the same style sense: PINK! And it appears as though that style sense spills into her real life as well (how fabulous is that room??). And yeah, I am jealous of her pretty red hair and freckles.
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Five years ago, I became a mom for the first time. I was blessed to have an amazing, well behaved happy daughter that we named Isabelle. She was like the kind of baby that dreams are made of. She was so wonderful that we decided to have another baby right away. Fourteen months later we welcomed our first son, Henry. Everyone thought we were crazy for having them so close together and they warned us that not all babies were like our daughter. They were right. Henry was an even better baby than Isabelle.
Now don’t get me wrong, they each had their moments. They were babies after all. Overall though, they were really great babies, then great toddlers, and now preschoolers. Blinded by great babies of the past, nineteen months after Henry was born we welcomed our third child, Daniel. The first six weeks were perfect and we thought we had hit another homerun. We hadn’t.
He developed a milk intolerance and would scream all the time. If you weren’t holding him (or often even if you were) he was crying. He projectile spit up everywhere all the time. We didn’t use burp clothes, we used modified catcher’s mitts. He eventually outgrew his crying spells and spitting up and replaced them with attitude and naughtiness. He is now two and a half and is the epitome of terrible twos (something we never had with our “great” babies).
That mom who is hurriedly making her way through the through the store while her son throws the food out of the cart? Oh, that’s me.
That mom who’s got one knee up on her kid trying to buckle his arched back in to the car seat? That’s me.
That mom who is dragging her kid kicking and screaming from the post office, the library, the store, and everywhere else around town? That’s me, too.
That mom who is trying to get her son’s shoes back on after gymnastics class while he screams, “NO MAMMA!!!!” in her face? That’s me.
He challenges me in ways I never dreamed of. He makes me question if I’m doing things right. He makes me wonder if I have enough patience (I don’t think I do). He makes me dread doing day to day tasks. He makes me long for bedtime. Each night though, I try to remind myself that this phase too will pass and remember the positive.
That little boy whose dimples and chubby cheeks can melt your heart? That’s my son.
That little boy who just wants to snuggle with you each morning while watching Sesame Street? That’s my son.
That little boy who loves to tell knock knock jokes and make you smile? That’s my son.
That little boy who runs over and gives you a hug when he knows you’re REALLY mad? That’s my son.
That mom and that little boy who are struggling to find boundaries and hoping to make each day better than the last? That’s us.
Oh man, I am so that mom! And that is so my son. And no I don't have enough patience. I fear the baby is going to be more active and a handful than the toddler I have. Sigh! Thanks for reminding me of the good things, even if I do dread going to the grocery store with both my boys
I can relate! I am sure many of us can! I tell myself the same thing, this can't last forever!
I'm that mom, too. And now I'm dreading the first little gymnastics class with my two year old who can be a terror on Saturday 🙂 But when he knows he's in trouble he gives the best hugs and kisses!
Thanks for sharing – I have three, but can't imagine them quite so close together!
Best of luck on Saturday. Just remember how cute he looked trying the balance beam while he's throwing his shoes across the gym!
I'm also that mom. I always said that I wanted four kids. I had my daughter and then I had my son. I decided that he was worth at least three kids and I was done. At 7, we still have our good days and our bad days. He is one of the sweetest kids I know. He is also one of the most challenging. We have found ways to work within his behaviors but it requires me to be constantly "on". It's exhausting but it's worth it. I figure, in the end, I will have a very successful young man who lets nothing stop him – as long as we both survive his childhood. 🙂
Mine was the exact opposite. My oldest 2 boys were wound tighter that Dick's hatband. They had to be entertained or sleeping. My youngest is the most laid back, forget he is on the property kid you will ever meet in your life.
I love this post! You sound like a great mom and you and your son will figure it out together. 🙂
OH goodness, you were spoiled with your first two! 😉 It's always good to have a little challenge in life. At least that is what my children have taught me. 🙂
Great post!
So my take is that god gives us these "challenging kids" as birth control! Amelia is that kid and will bet last! 🙂